Married for 10 years but my husband still loves his ex


Married for 10 years but my husband still loves his ex

By: Ritika shree
19 Aug 2017


Question: I am a 40-year-old lady and wedded for a long time. I as of late found that my better half still hasn't got over his clench hand sweetheart. I can't stand up to him since I accidently discovered her photos and their messages in a concealed envelope in his portable PC.

We never had an extremely fulfilling sexual coexistence and I generally found that there was something missing. In any case, I overlooked the inclination trusting that I was over theorizing and he is only an unromantic individual. Be that as it may, the sends I found demonstrated generally. He had communicated his solid physical wants in the most persuading approaches to his then sweetheart in the sends. There were likewise sends composed after their separation where he argued her to meet him in his room. This is not the saved man I had known for a long time.

We never had an extremely fulfilling sexual coexistence and I generally found that there was something missing. In any case, I disregarded the inclination trusting that I was over estimating and he is only an unromantic individual. Be that as it may, the sends I found demonstrated generally. He had communicated his solid physical wants in the most persuading approaches to his then sweetheart in the sends. There were likewise sends composed after their separation where he argued her to meet him in his room. This is not the saved man I had known for a long time.

Answer by Dr Sanjay Garg: It seems you are going through a really difficult time. I am somewhat unclear about the details. Is your husband still in contact with his ex-girlfriend? If the emails and pictures are from before your marriage, then I would suggest not to get too disturbed by them.

He may have been more unequivocal at that point however individuals do change after some time. Kindly don't begin deciphering past occasions in light of this disclosure. It will cause you more pain. You do need to accept a last call whether you need to remain in this relationship or not. You are just 40 years of age and should have the capacity to choose your future.

Uncertainty causes greater discomfort. If you feel you have had enough of this relationship, seek support from your friends and family and take them into confidence. Have an open discussion with your husband and inform him of your decision. Once decided stick to it. It may initially cause distress but over a period of time you will better. Seek professional help if required.








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